Haridas Patil

At the interview At the interview, the candidate was asked about his marriage by a lady interviewer. He started laughing and replied that he was not interested in her and marriage. She indignantly shot at him that she was filling the column of the application form. He apologized shamefully to her. In another incident, a lady interviewer asked a male candidate about his experience. But he said something hilariously that he would take some time with her, then tell his experience. The lady flatly put her hand on her forehead and angrily scolded him. At the time, she expressed that she was asking about his job experience.   At last, he apologised her. By Haridas Patil (Blogger, Educator & Trainer)  

Instead……………….. -        We people complain in life instead of exploring it. -        We people like crying in life instead of trying in it. -        We people love to rest in life instead of doing best in it. -        We people see the shock in life instead of rocking on it. -        We people feel pain in life instead of feeling gain in it. -        We people love talking with medicines instead of talking with others. -        We people keep pending the issues instead of mending them.                    By Haridas Patil             (Blogger, Educator & Trainer)  

                                                                            Today's diary Date: 23 July 2021                                      Day: Friday Got up very early around 5.45 in the morning, and had a bath. Then I gave milk to my little friends –cats. As soon as I did it, I had a cup of tea with Marie gold biscuits. At 7 clock, I was ready to go to school as per my schedule. On the way, I saw less traffic and people. Maybe it was due to a curfew put by the state government. On reaching school, I noticed that there was none other than I. I walked to the third floor by a staircase where I was supposed to have my online class. Then the teachers rushed to school as the time was pressuring them. I came to know that today was Guru Purnima and would be celebrated. Along with others, I was assigned the duty of anchoring and handling the programme. It was without pre-planning, so I was under pressure. But I talked to myself that it would be a challenge for me.   At fi

                                 Thoughts for self-introspection 1)    Everybody feels that others should listen to him, but nobody is ready to listen to others. 2)    The day you control your temper, you will win the flow of life. 3)    Don’t look for good from outside, but inside. 4)    Start your day with gratitude and end with it. It can make you enlighten in life. 5)    If you stop, you will end yourself. But you continue to act. You will be truly alive. 6)    Sometimes others keep the worst attitude towards you. However, it makes you challenged and determined. 7)    Not money or designation are crucial for your life, but your inner peace, sleep and happiness most vital matter for you. 8)    Life is about your duty and inner beauty. So, to prove your role for it.    9)    You know that you are genuinely truthful, not required to convince or prove before others. 10)         Don’t waste your priceless time on others. For, nobody can compensate for you.         

                       Eight simple tips for your English speaking skills:-  It is easy to speak English but uses it in a simple and easy language in day to day life seems to be difficult. Expecting others including educated and non-educated to understand it. It feels like taking a fish out of water. However, there are essential points that can help out the person.   1)    Use simple words and vocabulary: Use such so simple and familiar words in the speech that others can get your language easily. They feel at home while listening to you. So, it is a proper way to write these words in your diary that you easily and naturally use these in your speech. 2)    Use short sentences: It is better to keep your sentence short and small. So as others can get on with your language, they feel to listen to you. It helps you and others keep communication smooth. 3)      Begin with slow speaking: Speak slowly actually helps you to have confidence in your speech. Then you can increase an

   Creative is somewhat to be a type of happiness and innovation. It also becomes an enemy to boredom. It releases lots of positive to mind and body. It offers varieties of living styles to us. It not only makes us interesting but also innovative in our daily routine. That’s why it varies from person to person. But it surely ignites a fire within-person and awakes his purpose for life.                                          Therefore, creativity would be inculcated into our daily lives. Some people call creative people crazy and non-sense. It is rightly said that creative people always do unknown things. They do everything happily and passionately. Hence, others think that creative people are like mad doers, seem that they are out of the syllabus.   But they spread happiness and a new way of life to others.                               It transforms the lives of people and turns them from negative to positive. It even changes the perspective from a problem into possibilities o

Idea………? Not have ideas now What to do? Either at a market or anywhere? Will I get or have it? Not sure or assured Total confusion and helpless Over day’s passing without it Experts point out, Find within mind But mind runs here and there Question before me   What and how I will have? No idea. Truly some say The idea can change a life, But mine is still unchanged As not have it now.     By Haridas Patil (Blogger, Educator and Trainer)

  To become successful in life and career, you have to take up the following suggestions seriously. 1)    You can’t blame anyone and anything for your failure. So it is better to be responsible. 2)      You can’t keep a regretting and complaining attitude all the time. Better you should know the reasons for failure.   3)    You don’t afford your timing wasted by asking here and there for guidance. Instead, you should stabilize yourself and start working on yourself. 4)    You must isolate yourself from the gadgets such as television, mobile and online games. Consequently, they divert your attention and make you restless. 5)    Instead of taking care of what others are doing, take care of yourself and your doings. Whereas you can focus upon your resources and mission. 6)    You should spend your time in isolation and keep reflecting on your duties as well as dreams. It can ignite a fire within you and push you ahead. 7)    You need to rise early and start the exercise. I

    My thoughts:------ -         A blank mind sounds difficult than tensed one. -         What to do or write in leisure time is a big headache. -         Sometimes, acceptance of people and their nature looks out of control. -         In our free time, doing worthwhile work requires a lot of thinking and courage. -         Expecting everything easy way seems to be day-dream and doubtful. -         Quick reaction kills self-respect. -           ‘Love you’ means beginning with self, and maintaining it is a challenging aspect of life. -         Life is full of choices, and selecting them is too full of challenging. -         Every time be afraid of what you act and think whether it is beneficial to others or not. -         Life and its related decisions are like washing the vegetables and fruits, later cut them into several pieces. -         Keeping ourselves simple, mind thoughtless and sound sleep are today’s needs, and having them is a real achievement. -      

                             I heard the following story at one of the educational programs. And I liked it very much. So I wish to tell it here.                                        Life-changing test One day the professor went to the class and declared that he would take a surprise test. The class was surprised over it and started murmuring. But the professor convinced them about it, and they were also ready to take it to challenge. It meant that he was going to ask a question to the whole class. Then he asked them, “What will you do to make the next empty class untidy and dirty?”   Some of them shared that they would bring the garbage in the class. Others responded that they would throw the dirt or garbage there.   However, the professor was not happy with their responses. He uttered,                “I don’t get the answer what I have expected.” Then he looked at a student who was sitting in the corner of the class. They both looked at each other with a smile. The pr

  The fun we had On Monday morning, I introduced a new activity to 9th to take them to the lesson ‘The Fun They had’ By Isaac Asimov. I had just a few ideas and instructions for the class. One by one, I put them before the class. While doing it, they were somewhat excited, curious and happy. The following instructions were given. -        Those who are right-handed writers will write any three sentences with their left hand, and those who are left-handed writers will write three sentences with their right hand. They have to finish it within two minutes. -        Translate any Hindi movie dialogue into English within two minutes. -        Write words to end with the letter ‘er’ as many as possible within one minute. -        Write English alphabets from end to beginning – example ‘Z……….. A’ -        Write any proverb with meaning in your language within two minutes.         In the end, all of them clapped for this activity. On asking, each of the students unexpectedly shar

  The slogan is on the rise everywhere! The slogan, what we call in Hindi ‘Jumalabaji’, become a special place in the hearts of political parties, corporates and all industries. Even we have seen them in the past, “Ab Ki baar…………. Ki Sarkar   Khelega India, To Jitega India.   Doodh Pita Hai India Pepsi- Yehi Right choice hai baby LIC- Jindagi ke Saath Bhi or Jindagi ke bad Bhi Garibi Hatao Congress Mukt Bharat Sabko Dekha Bari Bari, Abaki Bari Atal Bihari Acche Beete 5 Saal, Lage Raho Kejriwal Modi hai to Mumkin hai….!”                          Nowadays, such various slogans are used everywhere. They make us either think or confuse about the content. Recently, one of the schools uses something new,                “Rukhi Sukhi Khayenge, Lekin Padhai Online Ho ya Offline Jarur Karenge…!” It seems to us that our lives are full of such things. But surprisingly, these are on the high rise. Earlier, it is said, “Action speaks louder than words.” On the contrar