Haridas Patil

                                  “Hurry makes worry or No hurry, no worry.” These statements always come true and influence a person’s life. Recently, I have come to know about a school child who fell victim to this statement. 9th class student secured fewer marks and was promoted to 10th. But his parents were not happy and shared his yearly efforts with me. His father pointed out that he completed answer sheets, yet he secured fewer marks. I listened to both parents and sensed that he had the habit of making a hurry each work. All the time, the mother instructed the child, “Do fast as you have lots of homework and complete the work before the time.” At school, the maths or other subject teachers repeated what his mother had done at home. So, he became very fast in his work and did the work without reading properly. Further, he kept reading fast or in hurry and consequently, he secured fewer marks on each paper. Then, his mother shared that he always finished the meal in n

  1)    Case study Pankaj Vasiya from Rajkot graduated from South Gujarat University, Surat. Initially, he thought of joining any job but was not happy. However, he shared his views with the family about his idea for his startup business. Some of the members opposed his idea and insisted on him doing the job. As they didn’t want to take up any chance of risk or financial issue. He still dreamt of his startup, and slowly he convinced his father about his dream. On asking him, he had still an unclear idea of what startup business. The father allowed him to do whatever he liked. Then he started taking a round of his area and didn’t get what business was. But he kept communicating with the people of that area and others. On the other hand, other family members mounted pressure on him for returning to the job. He continued visiting the people, schools and colleges nearby. After six months, he found something related to his idea. He decided to start a library for school and college stu

I have been lying something with me for a longer time. It was related to the past incident. While telling it with me, as if I communicated it with others, and became happy or satisfied. Consequently, I convinced myself it was truthful. I never realised that I lied to myself. But I enjoyed it and thought it to be truthful. Further, my mind never liked leaving it but digging it out all the time. Only my purpose was that I tried to prove myself as truthful about the past. Significantly, I have developed it into my firm habit. Recently, I shared it with my close friends and got relief. I understood that I had to share it with others authentically. Somewhat I have come out of the well of the lie. Do you have such habit? Please share it with others.