Haridas Patil

  Today, I conducted the webinar at Selvamm Arts and Science College, Namakkal, And I like to present some excerpts of my talk. A webinar on Communication: To create to future - Starting with a story with a clear message- A power of your communication  Keep your communication powerfully and authentically:-  - Speak authentically, meaningfully and straightforward without hesitating ex- Mr Narendra Modi's speech on farmer bills and repealed three laws. - Don’t see a negative part but a positive one for everyone  - Don’t keep emotion and attachment while communicating with others - Express yourself authentically and straightforward  2) Listen to your surrounding people intensively and try to get what is in there for you:- - Don’t judge or react while listening to others intensively, but ask yourself what is there for me? - Always keep your mind empty before listening to others. Because you can receive the message well and apply the same at every level. - Sto...

  Problem solving task 1.   Your close friend has a habit of stealing from others' bags. So what will you do about this bad habit? 2.   Your friend failed in many subjects, what and how will you help him? 3.   Your friend has a habit of speaking a lie with others all the time. What will you do to remove his bad habit? 4.   Your class doesn’t speak English. What steps will you take for it? 5.   Your class always makes noise, and you get disturbed. So what will you do? 6.   Your friend is going to study in America, what suggestions and advice will you offer? 7.   Your brother had a habit of using mobile too much. What will you remove his habit? Any suggestions? 8.   Your friend has a habit of complaining all the time. What will you help him remove his habit? 9.   Your friend had a habit of using bad words in speaking. So, what will you do about that? 10.            ...

    What is the importance of public speaking? Ans: - Public speaking means ‘speak in public.’ It may be at the gathering or social function, school assembly. There are several benefits to those who are public speakers or practising it. Let us see them one by one.  1.   Career:- Public speaking helps you in your career. It helps you at the interview for leaving your best impression on the interviewer. Further, public speaking makes you the leader in your field and college. So as you can stand up for the people and society. Nowadays, public speaking is required in every field. That’s why it helps the person to make his career better.  2.   Social connections: - Public speaking increases your social connections. As you speak at the gathering or social function, the people start recognising you and take your help in their fields. Further, they start appreciating you every time. In this way, you can increase your social connections.  3.   Thin...

  A new initiative for my students As soon as the offline classes started, I sensed a health problem in most of my students, who were interested in eating outside junk or oily food. All the time, I was running after them not to eat. But they started avoiding me and refused me. Over time, I was worried about their habits and health. After lots of thought, I concluded that I had to take some steps for their eating habits. So, one day I just asked the class to have lunch with me the following day during recess. For that, they had to bring homemade food. Surprisingly, not all of them except one student joined me. However, I didn’t give it up but continued it with that student the following day. It resulted in bringing half of the class joining me in my mission. Then, the entire class joined me and enjoyed homemade food. We all began offering food to one another. Further, most of them showed their tiffin boxes, and they said that their mother had prepared them for me. In a short time,...

  Life is a short Once, the judge asked the man, “Sir, do you want to fight the divorce case filed by your wife?” The man replied politely, “No sir” The judge questioned him, “Why don’t you want to fight it?” He said, “Sir, it is insignificant if I go for it and waste life. As life is so short, it is important to let others live and also me.” The judge thought for a while and asked him what job he did. The man said in a lower voice, “I am a teacher and teach the children.” The judge unknowingly stood up at his place and looked at him. People in the courtroom also stood at seeing the judge and threw their glace at that man. That day brought value and importance to the teacher. His words were written as golden letters. All of them saluted him and his thoughts.   Moral: Not waste your life and others. For, it is very short. By Haridas Patil (Blogger, Educator and Trainer)

Happiness is significant for all of us. It is a goal of everybody’s life. Because it influences every aspect of life. It helps us to learn better, live longer, enjoy every gift of life and feel contented. But it requires not a lot of high thinking and luxurious lifestyle but simple living and high thinking.   That’s why we all need to empty our minds before going to bed. It helps us to relax minds and hearts. Further, it is equally to focus upon the flow of thought and keep observation of the surrounding without reacting to them. So it is simple for all of us to get happiness and live a better life.

Words 'Sorry and forgive' can do a miracle!   Today, I began my session at my class for college students after Diwali vacation differently. On seeing them, I sensed that something was missing not only in their life but also mine. So, I questioned all of them about how they were feeling. The first of them responded to me that he was feeling stressed. The second student said that he was not able to focus on his goal. Third replied that he was not interested in doing anything. The rest of the class also shared the same. After listening to them attentively, I assigned a task to them, "You have to make a list of the people whom you hurt or insulted. Also, write their names and relations. After making a list, you have to say sorry and ask for forgiveness." Consequently, they started with difficulty, but slowly they felt relieved and became happy. I observed it on seeing in the words and body language. In the end, they understood the value of sorry and forgiveness....