The books and the marriage rejection
Once
upon a time there was very rich family and happy. It was called as Ramkar
family. They had their own business and five members. Two sons and a daughter along
the husband and wife were living. All were educated and cultured. At that time
the father was looking for good match to his daughter. So he spread word among
the community. In between they received lots of invitation. The whole family discussed
it with one another. Because they always believed that the important decision
would be taken with the family discussion. Finally they selected one of the
famous business families of their state.
Accordingly the father
along with sons and other relatives visited that family. At first they were
welcomed and offered the refreshment. After that both family had good discussion
regarding the marriage as well as the family business. However the father and
the family of the girl were happy at first, but the father asked for taking round
the house which was like huge bungalow. So he was allowed to take round each
and every corner of the house. He observed
it very consciously and became somewhat confused about the boy’s family. As
soon as he ended his turn and requested his sons to see it too. They also saw. Finally
everything was finished including round of the house. It was seemed to all of
them that the marriage might be fixed, but the father of the girl turned down. It
shocked everyone including his sons. There was no communication for while, but boy’s
father came forward and asked for reason of rejecting. Though they belonged to
high society and well settled in the business.
The father of the girl responded
politely, “I found that there were no newspapers, books and family library in
the house. I think that these are our base of the family. It shows that there
may be missing discipline, modesty, good family cultured, respect, and many
more. There is no doubt that the family has huge money. However it is not everything
for making the family happy and contended. In my opinion, good and happy family
should have its own library and daily newspapers. The family can read them every
day and it is food for their thought. So I apologized you all for sharing my
views” everyone listened to him attentively. All of them became pensive and receptive.
Even today’s we look for good things
including bank balance, cars, bungalows, luxuries ,and wealth. However that
father saw something different and rejected the proposal.
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