Haridas Patil

  My writing and life…..     Since writing became a part of my daily routine, it has transformed me a lot. It had brought a drastic change in my thoughts and perception. It means that it has offered much, perhaps I don’t have any idea how to express my thoughts about it. But I should give it a try. Broadly speaking, writing stopped my reaction part, which was widely used without any notice. It made me slow at every stage of life either speaking, thinking or sharing anything. Besides, it reduced stress levels and brought a sense of understanding to some level. It completely changed my communication skills and listening skills, too. As a result of it, I became relaxed in my day-to-day life. I always become positive despite a difficult situation, which sometimes seems to be a difficult. Further, I easily look for the good and positive in each and every one of life. That is my greatest achievement in my career. I even turn frustration and problems into challenges a...

  Life plays with us like a football! The day should begin with a list of priorities for all, yet most of us fail to figure out what it is. Then it leads into a lot of chaos and mind-blocking. Further, it creates self-talk with the past gathered, and waves of alienation. It continues to consolidate negativities in life through the mind. It never leaves a chance for ill-feeling, as well as past regrets or happenings. It always feeds and convinces us it is right on every side. Consequently, we are played by others or situations like a football goes in every direction without our permission. Time and Day never come in life for us where we can understand the dirty game of our mind. We are strangled mentally and physically, too. After some time, we become clueless about the constant running thoughts through our minds. That’s why we have to train our minds positively and instantly. We need to affirm it with positive thoughts. We need to remind ourselves with a few suggestions, such...

 Life is a meaning-making machine.... As soon as we see, touch and observe, like to make meaning of those things or objects. Generally, we are conditioned to do it naturally. That's why, we never realise what life feeds us and mind- a monkey type, produce life what we never expect. Consequently, we are controlled and limited by such way of meaning making machine. On the other hand, we inculcate a habit of perception strongly.  Slowly, we form a kind of thought process for everything, by the time we start reacting verbally, violently and physically. As a result, we become a puppet of such meaning making machine.  And we are played by others. That is an amazing story of our lives.Besides, we are confused into ourselves. Lack of clarity, maturity and analysis further strengthen our psyche.  In the end we always look at others' fault and cunning nature, probably we forget our role in shaping our pschye, a kind of behaviour we are conditioned to carry forward in life and ...

  Date:-30/06/2026                                                              Day: - Tuesday                         Started reading a book When I was pursuing a degree at the college, I read English books slowly and with intention, I had it. Similarly, I started it yesterday and realised that I have a better chance to enhance my English language skills: speaking, listening, reading, and writing. These can help me do well at school and in classes. It is a matter of today and needs for me to secure something good. Yesterday, I began reading a book titled Meditation. It was hard to understand or comprehend, so I enjoyed reading...

  It’s saying to wake up for yourself, development, happiness, career and everything you want to achieve in life. So, you take responsibility, you can’t waste time on complaining and finding fault. In this way, you choose your path accordingly and go ahead. Still, your thoughts and attitude matter, as they become hurdles whenever you make a decision or change your way of acting. Consequently, you probably feel stuck and wait for something else to help you come out of the situation. You further in carrying it out all the time. It influences you and your work style. Then you feel nothing works well for you. However, writing every day will sort out your problems. Let us see it one by one…                              If you go for writing a diary every day, it will help you clarify and convince yourself about the true and false aspects of your life. Further, it will develop your self-motivation and assurance ...

  Date: - 25/06/2026                                                      Day: - Thursday     Recently, I got a call from my college management asking whether I would join the college as a full-time faculty member. I declined, as I had work in the afternoon, and hoped for a better option in the city. On making a decision, it sounded good and confident to me as I was of the opinion that the network, as well as connections with others, would help me to get the job. I maintained it well throughout the years. On the other hand, I began sharing with a few of them, and I also met with them. By that time, I felt positive and confident about my decision and networking.   But, slowly and gradually, it became delayi...

  For a few days, I have been unable to write in my diary or blog, as it seems I don’t have the focus, passion, dedication, or interest to pursue it. Perhaps I have lost these qualities of writing. I even know that it is quite hard to carry out in day-to-day life. It asks for lots of passion, focus, and a strong interest in it. That’s why I have to keep my focus on it. Further, small distraction such as screening time, constant watching of reels divert my mind or focus, and I am trapped in a game of mind that plays a role in mind-bogging.   Then, I keep delaying it and look for an idea to write anything or a will to do it passionately. But it doesn’t take place, and keeps me at bay. Through lots of thoughts as well as observation, I go, and finally I come to the end of nothingness and an impossible attitude. In the end, I simply give in and start doing some other things.   As a result, I don’t find any idea or topic to maintain my passion, which is writing tasks on a ...