Haridas Patil

 On Patience   We often hear the phrase, " Sabar rakho (keep patience)" it implies lots to us or carries a deeper meaning . But we never get it fully or misunderstand it. That's why, we probably have confusion and chaos about life.  On the other hand, it is said, " patience pays rewards." Similarly, in hectic schedule, we forget  or neglect it, and we face dismood or mood off. It furthers to compel us to give in to situations. consequently,It make us irritated, reacted violently and impatient. In today's life, we are very much hurry after things to be completed or achieved. So, we neither keep waiting for happenings nor taking proper time for it. That's why, we are either dissatisfied or dismood over target objects. As a result we may loose lots that is; Happiness, observation, understanding skill, ray of hope, acknowledgement and gratitude skills. Therefore, we need to develop some basic skills in cultivating patience. It is said , slow seems to say muc...

 Our past Past is actually past, neither it leave us nor we leave it. As it is a sticky ingredient of our lives. In course of time, it becomes a part of our  nature and influences us when we face any hurdle or difficulty.  However, we never realise it's negative impact over our lives. Sometimes, we behave as per it's hovering to us.   Simultaneously , we are fed up with it too much and disturbed. Mentally  and physically we see sense with its effect. That's why, we don't get proper way to deal with it or discard it.  However, we can train mind accordingly. We can tell softly to mind whenever we remember past, " oh, mind the past has finished or gone away." Further, we can pen down our past and burn it. Then we have to tell that we have erased ot completely. Even we can gather the past on our palm and throw it backside immediately with closed eyes. Further, me can become a watchful over our thoughts without fuss.  Last but not least, we can introsp...

 Date:- 15.05.2026                                                Day:- Friday Something significant about my career…. Today, I am a bit confused about what to write down or do to help my mood swing back to the good and positive aspects of my life. Sometimes I think missing something and looking for extra work where I feel I have to work hard or put my creativity into that field. Simultaneously, I keep worrying about my financial issues, how to increase my income or find better options for my career. These thoughts or some others, are running through my mind like a wild horse. At some level, I ask several questions of myself in order to be sorted out. Afterwards, what thoughts are jotted down with hope to get better? But it never happens or gets left out somewhere in between my routine. Ultimately, questions are cropped out before me regarding goals which were pla...

 Date:-14.05.2026                                                          Day:- Thursday On Communication skills. You can become a good speaker when you listen with understanding, rather than answering. Whenever you listen to others, try to understand their perspective and what they actually want to convey to you. Consequently, you obviously connect with them. The saying goes in the right way like this- ‘listening well is the backbone of well-spoken.’ Further, it is better to practise before speaking in an actual situation. It can help you out. It leads the communication in a fruitful and outcome-based way. Secondly. Keeping at writing daily will refine your thought process precisely.  Thirdly, keep reading between the lines on a daily basis, leading to what the message or feeling is to you. Fourthly, accepting others and situations ...

 Date:- 12.05.2026                                                                                               Day:- Tuesday Happiness, as it is perceived by each person, may vary. But it is a lot to us when we actually need it. It is said by famous people, “Those who are happy are very creative and innovative. They are actually supposed to have a sense of living life at every moment”                               In fact, it works like a vitamin tablet for us. That’s why it is an essential part of today’s life. Today is full of chaos and cutthroat competition. Every moment life asks for more effort, patience and creativity. So, we humans are unable to reach out. Therefo...

  Date:- 06.05.2026                                  Day:- Wednesday   A few ideas on Spoken English teaching                             I have been teaching a spoken English course since 2006. Throughout these years, my primary objective has become clear: to identify and implement practical, creative methods that effectively support students in acquiring spoken English skills. My central focus is to develop teaching strategies that are not only result-oriented but also foster an engaging and enjoyable learning environment. Ultimately, my aim is for students to internalize and actively use spoken English beyond the classroom, integrating it into their daily lives.   Sometimes, I feel that I have tried it at my best level, but it didn’t bri...