Haridas Patil

  My experience Nowadays, I am trying to take the people either educated or uneducated in the business. They listened to me quietly, and suddenly they neither attended nor replied to me. Most of them were at home without a job yet not take a chance in joining with me. Further, I convinced them for their daily remuneration, and even I assured my support. However, they either rejected or ignored me. So I became tensed about my way of communication. Still, I hopefully tried searching for the reasons of rejection. Then I found out the following reasons. 1)     We are not ready to come out of our comfort zone. 2)     We always look for an easy and comfortable way of earning. 3)     We often fear risk and rejection. 4)     We speak of challenges but avoid it when it comes to be implemented. 5)     We are not ready to accept our commitment to life. 6)     We always look for safety, assu...

       A puppet This week I saw an astrologer at one of my familiar houses. He was there to guide the young and educated man for his bright future. Because he was facing some problem at personal as well as professional level. That' why he was instructed to follow some rituals daily like not eating non-veg, keep fast on a particular day with salt less food and much more. Perhaps entire life's dogmas were packed into the head of the family. As soon as the astrologer ended his talk, he was in a hurry to catch another family. On seeing his business at high demand. Surprised and shocked over the firm belief in the astrology by today’s educated people. Instead of taking challenges and self-belief, they succumb these stereotype or orthodox people and become a puppet at their hands. Then they are played at their tune. Further, they are promised a false assurance based on some blind activities done. On the other hand, at school, they are ta...

 Change is a word difficult to be followed or accepted.   It is said,  “Everybody thinks of changing others but nobody thinks of changing himself.” The education has no role to compel or enforce others to keep it. But other factors have a role to play for it such as situation, awareness and perception. It happened with me that I had always a habit of changing or telling others to do it. But I always started blaming others if they didn’t follow or pay attention to it. Still, I had the same attitude, but my startup changed me and my attitude.  Nowadays I am taking a round of the markets such as vegetable, cloth and restaurants. So as I meet others and prompt them to do my startup as an assistant partner. Despite my all help and support, they reject me or my proposal. Preferably I meet my colleagues and graduates, they at first listen to me and later on they don’t respond to me positively as I was expecting.   One of my friends shared his difficulties and...

  Dil Kholo, Duniya Khul Jayegi Last Saturday, I was busy to drop my friend at his office, suddenly I was in a big problem of no fuel in my vehicle after returning. The petrol station was around 2 km from where I halted on my bike.   Further, I worried about reaching at appointed time and place. On just thinking heartily of advertisement ‘Dil Khol Ke Dekho to Duniya Khul Jayegi.’ An old man with bald turned up behind and offered to push my vehicle. At first, I denied after thanking him but he stuck to help me. Then he pushed me while riding his bike. As soon as I came near the petrol station, he was out of sight. Another young man came to push my bike. At last, I thanked them and waited for the old man to say big thank. But he was nowhere. While fueling my bike at the station, thought of paying back to someone the same thing in form of any help. Surprisingly I saw a man who waved at me for a lift outside of the petrol station. Asking him where he wanted to go. I became...

 Noise or chattering Noise either outside or inside always plays a disturbing factor in life. On listening to my neighbour routine inter complaining and their grumbling voice, felt my voice. It didn’t stop but increased loudly. I felt to be surrounded by people who were throwing lots of ill thoughts over me. Sometimes outside noise can be stopped but inside is difficult. It seems to be tick-tocked of the clock in the back of the head. It always rings and chatters with others who are unknown. It makes the person confused and mentally disturbed. It does not allow him to not only concentrate,  but trap him in the web of past, future and present. In this scenario, he doesn’t dare to go ahead. He keeps silent and quiet. To others, he looks to be silent but inside he has a battle of life. As the war goes on and messes up his life. This noise or chattering can be solved by taking down or sharing with near one. Otherwise, it may lead him into unknown or astray area. Then he will...

A wake-up call! One of my friends shared with unhappiness that his close friend, who was the best language teacher, changed the field, and now working as a coconut vendor. On asking the reasons for changing. He was not paid a proper salary despite his online teaching and another family pressure. So he quickly took a decision and submitted before the situation. Today’s education has been changed. Earlier what we were taught about Goddess Saraswati and Laxmi. It is said that both of them were equally devoted and respected.   But nowadays Goddess Laxmi is ahead of Saraswati. Consequently, education can be bought by those who hold the Goddess Laxmi in their hands. Degree and diploma are obtained or available on the money. No value or respect to Saraswati means ‘Knowledge’ is at all. Nobody devotes Goddess Saraswati but Laxmi. As earlier, we people used to pray and devote Goddess Saraswati in the early morning. We at present forget it and think of only money.   Further, educati...

  My Feeling towards others...... Nothing to be reacted to anyone or anything if not having value or respect. When it comes to being humble, then we just say like I am not great, but just human being. Similarly when we meet someone either man or woman. He or she is looked upon as sir or mam. That should be offered. otherwise, the word itself loses its value and respect.  Even we have seen at Northern side the people are respected with Ji, “ Apaka kya Naam Hai Ji?” on the other side at Mumbai or Hyderabad or southern  they call others by the language which is a reflection of that person or known as a language of criminals,  “Tera Naam kya Hai? Ya Tere baap ka Naam Kya Hai?” Even women are treated badly either at home or on the road. At a time the questions crop up before teachers, “Where has the education gone?”  Being educated and respected middle- class man calls his wife,  “Randi or Rand”  Even He beats her continuously if drunkard in front of societ...

A Lady Entrepreneur Pooja Yadav was from a poor family, having five children of the family struggled to get a good education. Father being a farmer saved a little for his children. However, she finished it at government school near Ajmer, Rajasthan. Being interested in sports, she showed it at school and college level. She became a player of Kabaddi. She represented Ajmer University at University level. Further, she became a captain of the state by representing in 2007 and at National level in 2008. Having a post-graduate degree in Sanskrit and aspired to become something. But destiny had something for her after marriage at the age of 20. Consequently, her dream and hope scattered. Her husband, being an employee of transport, lived at a small village near Neemach, Madhya Pradesh. She shared her dream of living a good life and career with her husband. Then she with husband shifted to Neemach town to rent a room. Then she had a baby girl having an asthma problem within six months. So...

                                                      Social Policymaker   Having a mind like steel at the age of 70, Arvind Bhai Jaiswal is basically from a small village of Sultanpur, Uttar Pradesh and still working at his tea stall with a smile. Earlier he worked as a vendor of Dana and gram at Railway station for many years. Later on, he started this tea stall 5 years ago. His wife, younger child, elder daughter in law and grandchildren live at the village. Only the elder son backs him up at the tea stall. Both of them, in turn, cooks for each other living in a rented room. Every month he deposits some amount to the family into the bank account. During this unlocked period, he manages to work at his stall and shows a ray of h...

  Life is tasteless or tasty…………! Every moment life changes its course and direction. It happens because of our thought, perception and tendency. That’s why it seems to be different from everyone. But mission and vision hold it back for the human being. If these are not kept, life creates chaos, fuss and messing up everything. Sometime back I had a word with my close friend, who and his wife work as government employees having monthly package around one lac in Mumbai region, complained about his life. It seemed to him tasteless, monotonous and grave. Since the lockdown, he and his wife were confined to work and they kept doing it in the sake of completing. Then, it became a daily routine and became mechanical for them. They hardly went outside for urgent work. He shared with me about his feeling of tasteless and monotony. Further, he exposed to discontinue the work and like to go far where he would find a purpose of life and challenges. After that, I urged him to make his w...