Haridas Patil

More……….. More problem, likely to be more successful. More complain, likely to be more destructive. More sleeping, likely to be more passive. More time-bound, likely to be more active. More Procrastination, likely to be more regrettable. More listening, likely to be a good speaker. More doubtful, likely to be more irritated. More let go attitude, likely to be more satisfied. Said by the people, more is less and less is more? What do you need more or less?

Family before and after Before the lockdown, the family was asking for more money. But after it, the family is asking for whatever money comes. Before the lockdown, it was spending extravagantly. Now it is spending judiciously. Before the lockdown, every member of it was careless about health. After that, everyone is taking health seriously. Before the lockdown, everyone was less attached to one another. After it, everyone is attached to others and asks about every day’s progress. Before the lockdown family was complaining about the objects. Now it is looking good in each object. Before the lockdown family was thinking about the future life. But it is thinking about today’s life. Before the lockdown, everyone was habituated to find the fault with others. After it, everyone is trying to adjust with others. Before the lockdown, everyone was talking on unrealistic things. After it, everyone is talking on realistic things. Before the lockdown what the family was. But now

Taking the challenges are the only way out…………….! Nowadays the people so-called good and smart are ready to work on less salary and do whatever it comes. They become self-pity people and use an excuse of this COVID 19. As if they are destructed and left without any hope. So they are ready to keep their talents and skills out in the sake of accepting any package or anything. They forget their strength. Under such a situation, they talk with others to do any job on whatever salary or condition. It shows that they have become like a lame man. They have thrown their smartness into a bin and accept anything on the part of doing a job. Further, they don’t argue on salary as well as their skills but behave like a slave. Such a scenario has been seen nowadays. I don’t know whether they didn’t know this COVID19 to be short-lived. Even I don’t get why they have not started on possibilities instead of excusing before others. Further, they have made themselves passive, negative and somewhat

A positive son Once upon a time, there was a young man admitted to the hospital. He was well educated and working at a multinational company. Having a problem of hearing, he was shifted to OPD and informed his parents about complexities in the case. They knew but had a hope of curing after the ears operation. So they put believe in the team of doctors. Simultaneously they motivated the son and prayed God for his well-being. On the day of operation, they came early at the hospital with other relatives. The team of doctors shared with them that the operation would take at least 2 hours. So they had to keep patient about it. As soon as it started, all of them were taking a round of the passage and looked worried. Father brought a cup of tea and biscuits for all of them and he was talking about the name and fame of those doctors operating on his son while sipping tea. He tried to keep them positive and confident. So there was a light moment among them. At that same time, the nurse wa

Winged Fables published the following story. Dr. Sanjay Patil originally comes from a small village of Shahada, Maharashtra. He began his career in 1996 with social service and then he moved to Surat. In the beginning, he struggled a lot but still pined for doing something for the society and its people. Gradually, people got to know him and sought his help for almost everything. In 2001, he was traveling in a memo train from Ahmedabad to Surat, when he came to know that a young man fell at Hathrun station from a running train and lost both his legs. Immediately, he pulled the chain and jumped out of the compartment. On seeing the young man in a pool of blood on the railway track, he ran and rescued him. The injured man was admitted to a hospital in Surat. Dr. Sanjay Patil tried his best to counsel the man after which, he was sent to his village, Amaraiwadi near Ahmedabad. Once he encountered a group of porters charging money from the common passengers. He intervened and informed a

We are taught..............! We are taught to blame others without realizing the fact, We are taught to react to others without keeping patient, We are taught to give up easily without doing the efforts, We are taught to think negative without giving a thought to positive, We are taught to call self as good and generous without understanding these words, We are taught to enter somebody’s personal life without taking permission, We are taught to motivate others without having self-motivations, We are taught to understand others without listening to them, We are taught to expect 100% without giving all attention to it, We are taught to celebrate the days without knowing the actual meaning of it, We are taught to use the words freely without getting their value and meaning, We are taught many things without seeing their consequence in the future, We are taught to keep patient without practising it at large, We are taught to insult others without having any righ

We are afraid and about to avoid the people while coming across the following people and situation. 1) People in the crowd 2) The man who cough 3) The man who does not use a mask or good mask 4) The man who spits on the road 5) The man who has a cold and sneezes continuously. 6) The police who are in the informal dress on the roadside. 7) The man who comes from the area where several cases are registered. 8) A team of doctor and nurse who take a round of the society for the survey. 9) The man who touches us by mistake. 10) The man who shares a story of coronavirus related death. 11) The man who is sick.  

                                                              On self-sustaining or self-dependent Nowadays we are being heard the word ‘self-sustaining or self-dependent.’ It means that we have to be a man of self-driven and self-motivated for creating new things. And we need to depend on self instead of others. From collecting the materials to making or finishing the product or anything to sell it at marketing. So we should be skill-based and talented. That is called ‘self-sustaining person.’ So the government tries to reach the society for that purpose and teach it for a better future. Even private colleges and skill-based institutes are setting up the structure for that. So as the talented, as well as curious learners, are to be attracted towards them. Further, they would make their self -sustaining materials and product. Then they would place these products at national and international level. By that time, the problem of unemployment would be wiped out from the society. These

Winged Fables Pankaj Laxman Bhai Navik is a young man from a small village of Rajpipla. He is the youngest son of the family. His village ‘Jiorpati’ houses around 50 families with very few people who have hardly made it to the school. However, Pankaj changed the village through his efforts. On completion of HSC, he was desperately looking for a job but could not find one due to which he did odd jobs for almost 8 years. He was always worried about his career and was highly disappointed as he had to shoulder the heavy financial burdens of the family. Over a period of time, he realized that things he had been chasing for so long weren’t his true dreams. He wasted no time in pursuing a three-month skill-based training program conducted by a public-private company that transformed him into a man with a mission. He began milk collection from around 4 to 5 villages and sent to district dairy. Each day he collected around approximately 500 litres of milk. Gradually, he purchased five cows

Mind blogging  Some time ago I got an opportunity to work at college. But I am worried over my body language and mind which are not ready to push me ahead. I feel that I have lost my charm in the teaching field. Even I am not keen to prepare for it. I don’t know the reasons for these changed factors in me. On the other hand, I just keep moving here and there and passing my time. Further, I spend most of my time on the laptop and browse social Media like Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn without any purpose and benefit.  At the same time, I know the consequences of these practices. But I need to work on it authentically and purposefully by leaving these present practices.   So what can I do for that to regain my passion for teaching field and my mission? Another interesting point is that though I am free at this moment yet doing nothing. Still, I don’t have constructive reasons for it. However, I must get up and start upon my previous habits of teaching and writing passionately. That

      Yesterday I was at a social worker’s office for some work. When I entered his office, at that moment he was talking with a young man for his job. The young man was jobless due to the Covid19 crisis. So the social worker was trying to convince him for startup business of dried grapes on the city road. Even he was ready to invest some finance in it. But the young man didn’t respond to him properly and meaningfully. At last, the social worker disconnected the call and turned at me.                                   He shared that the people, who asked for the job, are not ready to do for livelihoods. They thought that they could get better opportunities. So they rejected his ideas of startup anything or work. Further, he regretted that it happened everywhere and these people never realized the importance of job during the COVID crisis. Then he left the point and asked me for what he could do. On listening to these words, I became happy and thankful to him. At that time, I thanked Go

Rich life and poor life Once I was with my friend on some round of the city. While riding a bike I came across a beautiful and thoughtful scene. At Makkai pool, I noticed that there were lots of beggars gathering for getting food packets. There two people from rich family were distributing some snack to these people. These two are fearful while distributing it. Because the beggars were without a mask and in torn clothes. Further, they were dirty. But they were indeed happy and doing mischiefs with one another while taking it. Further, they started eating it as soon as they received. They didn’t wash their hands before eating it. They didn’t have any fear of Coronavirus or anything. They just enjoyed eating it fully and the moments. On the other hand, those who were giving the snacks to fear of Coronavirus. Somehow they finished it and ran away. The way the beggars lived a life without security, home, bank balance and food. The same way rich people would have lived. But they didn’t

Do these ten things during this hopeless lockdown to stay mentally and physically fit. Don’t react to anything or anyone. Speak less but listen more. Don’t sit idly but do everything actively. Look options in life and try to do it. Don’t lose temper under any situation.  Have meditation for 20 to 25 minutes every day. Always remember, “This will pass too.” Keep adjustable nature.  More importantly, bring a smile to others.  Think that you will get something better.  Happy doing!  Happy living!

Today, Tomorrow and Yesterday……………………. Earlier we were told to save every drop of water. But today we are advised to use water for washing hands many times. We were requested to socialize or be in the company of one another. But now we are instructed to be physically away from one another. We were not accepted by society in covering the faces. But now we are accepted in it. Earlier we used to shake hands. Now we keep 'Namaste' with others. Earlier we were not much serious about a minor illness like cold, cough and headache. But nowadays we are much serious about these. Earlier we hardly carried something with us. But today we always keep soap, warm water bottle, mask, gloves and sanitizer. Earlier we hardly used a handkerchief on the mouth. But now we keep it all the time before the mouth.                    Tomorrow something new will come in life. Maybe we will be carrying an oxygen bottle and a small store of medicines with us. Even it happens that every human being will be

                            Old pics and memories  Old pics of college days and first job bring the days which had gone away. But these still refresh my mind of those days. These make me remember not only days but also friends. I feel that I still live and miss them.