Haridas Patil

                         Your world is ultimately your words. It creates your world. You speak and listen to others. Even how you respond to others and ask others. It matters you and unconsciously creates your world of life. Sometimes you agree, disagree, but somewhere you produce it by your response. Whenever anything unexpected happens, you naturally keep it by protecting, resisting, avoiding, defending, forcing, and justifying.                                                                 But your words make a difference. It is either positive or negative. It is a must for you to select your words carefully as well as consciously. For they leave an impact upon you and your life.                      ...

                                        Yesterday I was very angry with my students as they were not interested in studies and became mischievous. So I was very worried and thinking of what to do. However I didn't look at my own thinking as well as commitment. Because I showed to be perfect in my work being the teacher. But my students appeared very much naughtier as my thought was also same. At a time I was totally puzzled and didn't look any positive in them. That situation of the class spoiled my mood and automatically started the blame factor. My thought also ran over it and tried to escape from the commitment as well as authenticity. Everything turned up as what i carried the set of thoughts. They may be :irritation , blaming , criticizing ,  regretting , and finding fault. So I was like that and unconsciously I put the commitment upon others. That's why ...

Writing daily helps a lot for those who keep it as the habit. Generally it is too hard to do. It takes lots of thinking, word power, and imagination. It enables the person to develop all round development. That’s why most of us start it, but don’t keep regular. It is said that we are heroes in the beginning, later on zeroes. However it has everlasting advantages for the person who wants to see. Let’s see one by one.                            It enables the person to cultivate the thinking and the observation skill. It helps to overcome the fuss of the mind. It prepares the person to develop his expression skill. It makes a space for growing up at mental level. It enables the person to gain confident as well as tolerant skill. It prepares the person to live an extraordinary life and accepts the challenges thrown by the life.    ...

The word ‘communication’ comes from the word ‘commune’. It means to be oneness or togetherness. In detail, the person speaks with others. If he is heard with oneness or togetherness is called real communication. Whenever we either listen or communicate, at that time, we both people connect with each other in the communication. We show oneness, togetherness, and attachment. Otherwise it is a just mechanical communication if there is no sign of oneness and togetherness in it. The person speaks without any authenticity of oneness or togetherness and other just hears the word, not oneness with him. That is only mechanical way of communication. That’s why most of the relationships don’t live longer and break up instantly due to lack of oneness and togetherness in the communication.                           In day to day life we come across such examples and never...

Today we Indian people are celebrating 70 th republic day all over the country. Republic means that it is a form of government in which power resides in the people, but is exercised by elected leaders run according to the constitution provision and enacted laws of the land. So what power do we have as Indian? Do we know it? Perhaps we are powerless due to current scenario of the country. We are always surrounded by the corruption, social issues, and internal fights. If we want to develop our nation, we need to know our self and power, that defines the word ‘Republic’   Today, instead of changing the leaders, we need to change ourselves, our attitude, communication habits, work style, and many things. We always put blame over the government for anything. It is either educational or social issue, but we never take responsibility of it and forget that we elected the present government by using our power. So that needs to be clear to us. Further we Indian have to develop our huma...

On Wednesday morning during this winter season, I saw a beggar standing, who was in front of restaurant ,near my school before reaching the school. At a time I felt very sad and I came at parking. As soon as I parked my vehicle there, I called the head boy of the school. He rushed towards me and asked what the matter was. I shared the story of that beggar who was there and nobody was paying attention to his need. So I felt pity for him and handed 100 rupees note to him, telling him that he would offer a cup of tea and breakfast to him by paying money to the hotelwala.                Then I went directly to the staff room. By that time he returned and said that he handed the rupees to him. I got angry with him and shot lots questions.                “Why did you give him 100 rupees note instead of offering tea and breakfast?”   He replied me that I ha...