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Life is a meaning -making machine

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                                                                                  Life is a meaning-making machine.                            Generally, we make meaning of every object in life. As soon as we look or observe the things we like to make the meaning. That is why it is said that life is a meaning-making machine. then we forget to live, breath, feel and act in life. sometime the person speaks something to which we feel uncomfortable. Then we make the meaning without thinking or realizing. Hence the problem starts and we mess up there with the person. But actually, we don't need to find any meaning in that. if we accept the person as it is. Later on, we can make a good rapport with him.     ...

I was in a dilemma whether my parents……….

    I was in a dilemma whether my parents……….   For the last few days, I have been worried about money and repayment of some loans, which were taken on a time period. But these days, I am unable to pay due to a lack of getting money. For this situation, I am solely and totally responsible. As I became an overspender and unnecessarily wasted money after family and objects. Instead of saving it, I spent it a number of times. And as a result, I faced financial issues and, most importantly, mental disturbance.   Earlier I thought of saving money, but I couldn’t carry out it. Consequently, I stole 3500 rupees from my own home as I did not have the courage to express my own offence as well as the mistake. Even though I tried to increase my income by thinking and putting in some efforts, it was only in paper and not in action or reality. What I confessed today here may be seriously disaster. This is no way good behaviour but a severely bad one. It could not be accepte...

Go to extra miles………!

  Go to extra miles……… For long time I have been delaying my writing works and other task such as reading the summaries of motivational books, which was purchased last month, and daily walking or exercise. These are my priorities and on my daily list. That’s why, I am worried over my passive routine, and at least I should take care of them. I am in deliberate way to invest my time in browsing internet and using my mobile. Consequently, it has been increased drastically. It makes me restless and put into a chaos situation about what to do or where to begin my priorities. Slowly and gradually, I am building a habit of non-workaholic that is very influencing over my work style and teaching styles. I accept these boldly and look forward to correcting myself. So I have to prepare my daily time-table intentionally and purposefully. Let me start with this promise that I will carry out my daily goals without disturbing myself. Adhering to this is my self- development which will surly...

Mind as a foe.

  Mind as a foe.              In day-to-day life, we always follow our minds sincerely and obediently. It is like a master and a servant. It often serves as lots of raw materials for our thinking and talking with others or self. That’s why, we are bound to it and never step out of it to see what exactly the world is. It creates boundaries around us such as limitation, suspicion, diffidence and adherence. Therefore, we never go beyond the routine. As a result, we assume life as fate and life's purpose. And we keep the Laxman Rekha for us and our lives. We are too doubtful to take risks in life. Further, we keep talking to ourselves and create unnecessary incidents.  On the other hand, the mind often stops us from doing something new by asking several questions or referring to the past or others’ examples. Then we take time and sit over there while thinking about it. That’s why, it is said that the mind is a meaning...

On listening

  On listening As we listen to others so we become. That’s why, listening skills build relationships good or bad. It depends upon how we listen to others, with what perceptions we listen and listen without interruptions. Further, do we listen to others in a complete sense? Or do we listen to others with the emotions of the speaker? Before listening to others we should be attentive. Then we can understand the person and his feelings. Once we get him, both of us will move toward a good relationship. As a result, we get each other. We clarify doubts and misunderstandings. Through listening skills, we get his message exactly as he wants to convey.   In the end, we both become happy and develop our rapport. Therefore, listening plays a greater role in life and relationships.  

Something new for this year.

πŸ˜€πŸ˜€It’s time to start something new this year. I like to go for making new videos every day and write something related to spoken English. It may be my experience based on my day-to-day life, new ideas and should be copy-pasted. But I must begin anything. It can create an empire in future. Possibly, I start making new videos every day based on my thoughts, feelings and ideas. It will build my confidence level, expression, presentation skills and outspoken skills. Further, it will rejuvenate a kind of energy and power in my life. Consequently, I will have more happiness, passion and self-motivation. So, it’s a good time to take the initiative and bring changes in my life. Let me think about topics which can be taken for making videos and writing blogs. My life and daily life are full of resources that can suggest various ideas and topics.     

Vocabulary Test no 1

                                                Vocabulary Test                                                 HUMAN NOISES Match the words in the box with their description below. Use your dictionary to check your answers. Sniff Sneeze Sigh Pant Scream Boo Stammer Cough Gasp Cheer Puff Chant Whisper Groan Yawn Snore 1. to sing a regular beat:- 2. to speak very quietly:- 3. to breathe with difficulty:- 4. to breathe fast:- 5. to make loud cries:- 6. to hesitate and ...

Express feelings authentically.

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                                 Express feelings authentically. Expressing authentically and with integrity is a need of hour in life. If not expressed it leads to extreme steps or incident happens. It may be unbelievable. That’s why we should express ourselves genuinely what exacts feelings and thoughts we have to be shared with others. It seems fine and simple, but it takes courage and boldness in the sake of expressing it authentically and fully. Sometimes, we face numerous challenges in balancing both our relationships and careers. Because we aren’t good at expressing ourselves authentically, never get the value of integrity. Therefore, we get frustration and disappointment. On the other hand, we start finding fault in and blaming others. Secondly, we never take a responsible role in that communication and relationships. Thirdly, we always take pity on communication and relationships. Fourthly,...