A key to happiness !

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 Change the opinion towards others – A key to happiness!
                                                               
                                                               It is said that as you saw, you shall reap. The same goes to this statement ‘what we keep the opinion about them as they will appear'. It may be good, bad, positive and negative. That person appears as we think about him. It is also seen that the mind collects the same evidence before us. So to think very careful about others. It is also necessary to keep our words about them as conscious as possible. Sometimes we keep some negative words about them, and they turn up all the time as our words. That’s why it is very significant to change the opinion towards others. It should be positive, good and ethical etc. 
                                                                                                         In the course of life, we always keep complaining and negativity about either the parents or the people. It seems to be like that. Why this happens and how does the mind collect such evidence? Because we always feed our mind with complaining as well as negativity. It produces the same result. It is also said that what goes inside that comes outside. Then our mind automatically collects such evidence that we are quietly convinced. The problem is that it is our opinion, not their and we become either sad or frustrated. So we need to get this. If the teacher keeps the positive, hardworking, honesty and creativity in the students. These students will appear as he keeps that opinion. But it is not an easy task to do and think. We have to cultivate the habit of looking positive and good in each one. It surely takes time. But once develops our mind, then it will gather the same evidence. By slowly and gradually we will have a lot of evidence.

                                            Simultaneously we can do self-questioning so that we will realise our perception towards others. It is necessary to do every day. Then it becomes easy to change ourselves. Same time we can understand our perception. But it is a time-consuming process and needs to look for good as well as positive in each thing. It is not only beneficial to us but also others. This way we can become happy and contended. Therefore we just need to change our negative opinion into positive towards others. It is also said “as we see them, so they will appear “  




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