Haridas Patil

                                                                          A man and his words.                            A man takes care of clothes, eating habit, and entertainment. But he never cares of the words. He uses in daily routine and expects good rapport, well-being, tranquility, and much more. In spite of bringing it to his notice, he tries to ignore and shows that he was right. Still he continues with those words which he uses and hopes a lot. However he doesn’t know psychologically he will receive what he uses for others. Most of the people keep asking themselves; -         Is it his habit or pretension?                                     Slowly his words are recognized and identified. Then he is labelled differently by different people. He automatically reacts differently with others. In a course of time, he faces lots of complain due to his words and runs rackets with others. Consciously he doesn’t realize what harm he is doing to himself. 1)      Ul

                                                                                          Is there vacation for the mother?                                            Everyone gets vacation either Diwali or summer, but our mother never has it. She all the time works for family as well as guests. However we educated never let her have it. Sometime she is not well; still she keeps herself busy in doing household work. Since morning to night she always keeps working on everything. We know India is known as a land of festivals. During this time she is too much busy in preparing special and festival dishes for husband, son, and daughter. This list goes on increasing and never ends.   Even she runs for doing shopping for everyone and guests.                  Nowadays she is seen everywhere. Either at market place or shopping mall or school parents meeting she is full of these things. She is on list of every life object. The questions arise before me: 1) When will she h

                                                                      The power of communication skill.                  An MBA girl, who was very talented and smart, got married to the wealthy and a young businessman. Both of them were quite happy and contented. After three month of the marriage, one day she received a call from the famous hospital and got shocking news. The reception informed her that her husband was admitted due to brain haemorrhage. So she had to come as fast as possible at the hospital. At a time she phoned her parents and shared that information with them.                       She along with them rushed at the hospital and got the detail of the young businessman. All of them waited out of the ICU room for the doctors. After a while, a main doctor of the team came out and expressed his concern. He said that there was 99% no chance of his living and requested them to take him to home.                            The parents and brother of that

Focus group discussion by Child Friendly Smart City at UME School. Child friendly smart city knowledge centre, Surat is a joint initiative of UNICEF and SMC, Surat. It organized Focus Group Discussion (FGD) at UME School, Limbayat, Surat on 19 th Oct, 2019, Saturday. It was during 4 to 6 o clock. That session was based on interaction and activities. It had clear objectives of making awareness about health, safety, and education among the school children. It was handled by Ms. Hinal Gor, Miss Tanvi Sanghvi, and Mr. Pragnesh Gamit. For that they selected 15 students in order to bring interaction and openness.                  At first Hinal Ma’am started with basic questions whether they liked to go hospital and what the health was. The children replied quickly about their eating habits and living style. So they didn’t like to go the hospital. Further she asked them which people didn’t go to hospital. They answered that the people ate healthy foods and cared the body. Such people

While going to class today the following incident took place at school. It was funny and meaningful.                                   Catch you…..! I –: Hello mam, good morning (while going to class) The lady teacher –: Yes sir, good morning. Were you looking for me? I -: Yeah! But now I have class. It is very important work. So I will catch you later on. The lady teacher— : Oh! Sir I am having weight of 90 kg. You cannot catch me. Don’t do it, otherwise………….! I – : Mam, I mean that I will see you later on. The lady teacher- oh! Sorry sir! Got it. I – : Okay. No problem. #education   #teachers   #English   #experience   #teaching   #backtoschool   #life

                                                               Turning point for the college students! At the college campus, final year students gathered and had tete-a-tete with one another on the last day. They looked very happy and cheerful. Everywhere they were seen exchanging their contacts. At a time the principal was passing by, so they happily greeted him and he too acknowledged them. He stopped there and asked them about what their future plan was. Many of them shared it with him. Further he questioned them who their ideal person was. All said about particular teacher and others’ name. They felt proud while telling about their ideal teacher and person. Again he shot the question to them why they liked those particular people. They justified their liking by telling that they were friendly, good by nature, and funny. Then the principal changed the question and threw at them. -         Who made you to learn intensively and constructively? -         Who prepared you

                                                                          Mended relationship! Sometime the life doesn’t ask for bigger things to get one another, but simple and easy sentence can bring the beautiful life back. Same like that happened in front of me. Yesterday I was at a hospital because my sister’s son was admitted. Hence I went there in the evening to see him. As I reached and saw a crowd there, most of the people were looked tense and worried. Then I went to a special room after inquiring at the reception. I had a word with him and the sister. I wished him to get well soon. After sometime I left the room and came out. At the reception people gathered and were inquiring about the doctors as well as rooms. Suddenly I heard a young man shouting and scolding loudly to the old man and woman. Perhaps they were his parents.   He caught everybody’s attention. On other side they also kept blaming him. Between them there was heat argument. There was serious issue a

                     Is it a vacation for Diwali or assignments? This running week I was asked what Diwali project would be for them by 7 th class. They wanted to know it from me and said they had it from every teacher. Generally it almost happens at everywhere, but assigning doesn’t guarantee for any creative work or proper utilization of the vacation. Everybody has a different point of view over this topic. But I was a little bit worried by giving it. In 20 days, what they will do? They will do either it or spoil the Diwali vacation. Even there is no limit for this assignment. At that moment I asked them what project they needed in English subject. They at once replied that they would do it whatever I would give. But they didn’t look happy or excited while taking down it. Further I took a diary of one of the students and went through it. On seeing, it was filled with Diwali assignments. As the teacher I got shocked and realized the mistake which I did it in sake o

                                 Delete the Ravana - an ego, but select love on this Dashera day! On the day of Dashera festival, I was at the library for reading the newspapers and the magazines. At 12.30 I started returning home. While driving a bike, I realized that the mobile was ringing. I took out from the pocket and saw unknown number. At first my mind dived into guessing whose number or who the person would be. But I attended it at last. I heard some unknown voice greeting me. I also did it and asked for his introduction. He introduced me that he knew my father. Because my father was brought up by the caller’s father. Even my father was at village while that man was talking with me. So he had something to say and shared with me the story of my father. I kept quiet while listening to him. He said that my father was very naughty during his childhood and didn’t like to go school. At that time caller’s father had bitten him number of time where my father was working. A

    Social media advocacy training for creative writers @VNSGU, Surat. On 5 th Oct, 2019, Saturday, ‘Social media advocacy training for creative writers was organized by UNICEF, Surat Municipal Corporation, and Child friendly city group. It was held at the social science department, VNSGU, Surat. I along with 22 people, who were from different background, participated in it. At 9.30 we gathered there and had breakfast and tea before the session. At 10 the session was started by Mr.Anuj sir who is in charge of Child friendly city group. He introduced the trainer, Mr. Kumar Manish, who was from Ahmadabad. He was from journalism and mass media field. He worked with The Times of India group, Ahmadabad for some years. Now he works as a part time faculty at PDPU University, Ahmadabad. He is very expert at social media content. The trainer began the session with an icebreaker. In that every participant came forward and said in a word about what he wanted out of the session and stood

                                   My students became enlightened!                          Sometimes the students play the role of a teacher and the parent. And that role is played by neither the teacher nor the parents naturally. But the students play it and bring the positivity into learning, relation, thinking, and career. Somewhat that took place at my class.                                I was just taking a round of my class as other classes had the half-yearly exam. My class had a study day. At that moment, one of the science teachers came and informed the students that she was going to show chemistry papers. So I went out of the class and started passing my time. But I heard somebody crying after a while. Immediately I reached near the window and peeped in. One of my students was crying. And the teacher tried to convince her that she should not worry, but she could recover it next time. She was offered a water bottle by the teacher to drink. Consequently, there was com

The seminar on ‘An English communication skill’ was organized by Nakoda social group at Nakoda community hall, Vesu, Surat. It was on 2 nd Oct, 2019, Wednesday under the leadership of Mr. N.S.Mehta. He is one of successful businessmen in Surat. He is the president of Nakoda community. So he always keeps such good and learning programme for his community in order to give something positive. Over there I was invited as a speaker. There were around 60 women attending the seminar. I covered the topics such as communication, presentation, leadership, and listening skill. I started with a small activity named ‘two truths and one lie of their lives’. In which they had to speak two truths and one lie. At a same time others had to identify which one was the lie. All of them immensely enjoyed the activity and became active participants. Slowly they got confident, happiness, and learning with fun. The whole session was interactive. So they smiled throughout the session an

These 5 paths of Gandhiji make you Gandhi in daily routine! Anybody can follow the path of Mahatma Gandhi and become like him. Through these 5 paths he can bring a change not in him but also others. These can be followed in the daily routine without any bias. These were followed by Gandhi in his entire life. 1)     Truth : It was not only word but also action for Gandhi. Once he said that the truth is the god. In his childhood, he was having a spelling test. At a time he didn’t know the spelling of one word. His teacher saw and gave him a hint that he would copy from others. But he refused to do it. At that young age, he proved his truthfulness nature. As result he failed to score full marks in it. So this small incident points out that not only thinking, but also action was shown by him. The same way we Indian also keep practicing it and follow his path in the daily routine. 2)     Non-violence :     It was immensely powerful path for him and guided him to get th