Family habits

  
               

                                                      Family habits !

 Sometimes we don’t know how to live life. It is due to our thought, preconceptions, and surrounding issue. That’s why most of us miss a good and precious life. But some people are less educated. They are seen living a happy life. It is because of their daily habits. These are very common, not very extraordinary.

On the other hand, people are being highly educated seem to be somewhat confused and complex by nature. Maybe they don’t see beyond their routine. It is because of their overthinking, caring, and overprotecting nature. They live that way throughout their lives. They don’t offer the gratitude what it attracts, but they offer  a complain , regret and tension. Then they are lost in the course of their lives and forget their vision.

Recently, I observed one of the families in my society and they are seen very happy. The wife and husband are not very educated. But they are practical and ethical. Their routine is full of creative and pleasurable. Early morning, they get up at 5 o clock and start their preparation. Simultaneously, they listen to the filmy song of the famous singers and later on, the husband leaves for his business to sell the foods. After that, the wife also leaves for a morning walk. She gets back home to start her sarees business. The family looks well adjustable with the flow of life and financially sound.

Every day, I observe that they enjoy morning songs well.  It sets their routine positive and cheerful. It makes them focus upon the work and interested in it. Further, their morning productive and creative is increased automatically. They keep a jolly atmosphere in the family. Even they change their business accordingly. It means what types of business run in the market. They start it and leave earlier one. They are very flexible in their routine and life. 

At the same area, there are the other families which are always in the mood of fighting and complaining. They blame their fortunes. Sometimes they go to the astrologer for advice. Then the astrologer acts as their family consultants. He guides them on how to work and what types of religious rituals to be performed to be well- being in their life. Automatically they become dependent upon him.

-        What do we require to achieve in life?

-        Is it told by the astrologers?

-        Are they foreseers of our life? 

              We are not ready to take responsibility for our action. Further, we are afraid of taking extra steps in life. We always look for self-pity and cover with self -created dogma. That never allows us to step out of the comfortable zone. Therefore, most of us seek guidance from the astrologers and wait for his response. We become crippled at the hand of these people. Then, we start blaming and finding fault with others. At a time we never think of our education value and practical learning.

These become rotten learning and simple paper made certificates. We are not serious about what we are doing with our life. Anything happens, we start behaving strangely and angrily.

Most important point is that we neither leave our past nor accept the present. We don’t think logically and critically. That is missed by our routine. If it comes to change something, we become restless and uncomfortable.  

From the above two examples, we draw practical living and learning:

1)    We have to be flexible in our life.

2)    We need to keep our routine as jolly as possible.

3)    We have to depend upon self instead of any other person.

4)    We have to take life as a long learning process.

5)    We have to shift our thinking from the past to the present.

6)    We have to accept to let go attitude.

7)    We need to have joy in each moment.

8)    We have to keep our daily routine creative, innovative, and constructive.