My feeling towards others...........

 My Feeling towards others......

Nothing to be reacted to anyone or anything if not having value or respect. When it comes to being humble, then we just say like I am not great, but just human being. Similarly when we meet someone either man or woman. He or she is looked upon as sir or mam. That should be offered. otherwise, the word itself loses its value and respect.  Even we have seen at Northern side the people are respected with Ji, “ Apaka kya Naam Hai Ji?” on the other side at Mumbai or Hyderabad or southern  they call others by the language which is a reflection of that person or known as a language of criminals, 

“Tera Naam kya Hai? Ya Tere baap ka Naam Kya Hai?”

Even women are treated badly either at home or on the road. At a time the questions crop up before teachers,

“Where has the education gone?”

 Being educated and respected middle- class man calls his wife, 

“Randi or Rand” 

Even He beats her continuously if drunkard in front of society or on the road. Others being called educated stand silent and take interest in their falling out. 

Doesn’t it appeal to them as educated or cultured human? 

Doesn’t it fire in them to teach a bunch of values to others?  

Surprised is that they express, “I don’t know or what do I lose with it?

Same things happen at school when a child shows a lack of human value. Others, maybe teachers or neighbours, take lightly instead of serious. Old sentences come out of their mouth, “what do I lose in him (Mere baap ka kya jata?)

So it is an urgent need to teach what we think is good and value-based instead of running after the completion of the syllabus by spoon-feeding or stale rotten learning. If the result is announced not in favour, both of them, means parents and teachers community, hurl a stone of blame on one another. At least both of them should come boldly in front of others and accept the mistake done by them. Showing the children that they also copy it whenever they face a similar situation. Slowly all of us learn to respect or to be respected. 

What I did was right to call someone Ma’am or sir by showing an attitude of down to earth!