Comparing attitude
Let
me share three different stories on Comparing. We will get how the use of the
word ‘Compare’ spoils the talents and intellectuals of the human.
At
school, Satish is a clever boy in the class. He is always compared with others
by the teachers. Among the students,
Vishal and Ajay often feel guilty, tortured and insulted whenever any teacher
compared them with Satish by telling them that they should learn from him. So,
they always think of a solution to this compering aspect. As result, they never
concentrate on their studies but taking revenge.
Later
on, they both become loafer and kill Satish. In the end, they exposed how they
were feeling insulted and tortured when the teacher compared them with him.
Another
story, in the corporate sector a manager often keep comparing Santosh and Anita
with result-oriented Amit. Further, he asks them to learn from them. Sometimes,
the manager insults them in a meeting by telling them that they need to become
like him. So as they would achieve the set target by the company. But they
don’t get on with him and others. They all the time feel stressed and furious.
Consequently,
they never feel to take initiative at the workplace. Even they become mentally
disturbed and don’t feel passionate about life and career.
In
the upcoming days, they develop the attitude of telling lies, hiding their
feeling and mistakes. They forget their learning attitude. Then they become a
drunkard.
The
third story somewhat is very disturbing. In society, one of the boys becomes
good at studies and gets a government job with some facilities. But one of the
families always compares their son with him. So the son doesn’t feel secured
and happy in life. He never spends most of his time at home, but outside.
Then
he becomes a cheater and earns money. One day, he is caught by police and put
into a bar. He is sentenced to six years in jail.
These
three stories show the use of the word ‘Compare’ spoiling others and their
careers. If we people drop it forever, somewhat picture will be different. So
let take a pledge that we should not use it or compare anybody with others. But
we have to find some other positive points.
One
of the famous thinkers says, “Let be ourselves, not others.”
Hame dusro se compare nhi Karna chahiye khud Ka best Karna Chahiye..
ReplyDeleteOr agar loog aap KO compare Kar bhi rahe h to usko positive way se socho na ki negative way se.. or apna best karo ....😊
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DeleteYou should not compare ourselves to others. You should do your best and if someone else is comparing you, then they should be taken positive and not negative..
ReplyDeleteYeah, you are absolutely right.
ReplyDeleteThank you sir
DeleteWe should not compare anyone with others and if someone compares you with someone then you should take it in positive way. People like santosh and anita, in the story, forget their learning attitude, hiding there feeling and mistakes and sometime they spoils theri precious life for taking revenge after compared with someone. So if anyone compare you with someone you should take it in a positive way.
ReplyDeleteYes. Your points are really good and applicable.
ReplyDeleteComparing is not wrong but you take with positive way. It most important. find where wrong you are and improve yourself
ReplyDeleteOkay, thank you for your views.
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