Not show off the problems like jewellery.

                            Not show off the problems like jewellery.

Generally, we are addicted to releasing the ill-feeling, problems, worries, tension and anxiety. So it makes others be the same. Further, it spoils atmosphere and turns out talk of the town among the people. Then they pass it to others by adding something of their own. It happens everywhere and the people easily become a victim of self-pity. They get trapped into negative aura. Unconsciously they carry it with them, even revolve around negativity, full of tension, dejected faces, frustration, and flow of irritation. At a time nobody realises what negative chemical transpires between them and others. Even they are labelled of negativity. Slowly it impacts over entire personality and leads them into unknown future. It happens due to the addiction of releasing the problems.

              But I came across a family at a social function where a relative of that family started asking about their problems and tension. Being present there, I observed that the family didn’t indicate any type of that. On the other hand it was looked gleeful and fully optimistic. The mother of the family came forward and replied to the relative that the problems were not shown off like jewellery. These were part and parcel of the life. They were supposed to come and get back. But the person was supposed to move on without digging out. Finally, she pointed out about it to be a spice of the life. They would not have a sense of satisfaction and happiness without it.

                                   While listening to that conversation, I felt to be at the spiritual function. Such attitude is required everywhere. Otherwise it becomes habit of showing off the problem and look for self –pity. But this doesn’t be workable for the life. Let us bounce back and get courage of going ahead. Not only thinking but also acting positively should be a mantra of a successful life.